Friday, January 20, 2012

Contentment Briefly Revisited, Or, The Trophy Wife

I have seen another benefit of contentment, one that is profound in its consequences:  when I am content with what I have, my husband’s calling as provider is almost perfectly fulfilled. 

The fact that I do not live my days in want means that he is doing a good job of taking care of me.  My needs are provided; therefore in his role as the wage-earner, the bringer home of bacon, he’s at the top of his game because he has a happy wife.

It's a sobering thought that my attitude may be the most important measure of this very important aspect of my husband’s success.




Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Reminiscence While (Finally) Taking Down the Christmas Decorations


If we have food and covering, with these we shall be content.

Godliness with contentment is great gain.

Better is a dish of vegetables where love is than a fattened ox served with hatred.

Make sure your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have, for He Himself has said, “I will never desert you nor will I ever forsake you.”

(1 Timothy 6:8 NASB, 1 Timothy 6:6 KJV, Proverbs 15:17 NASB, Hebrews 13:5 NASB)

For many years I subscribed to these Scripture verses with the same attitude I showed for the fourfold adage Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, Or do without!

Those years were a little on the lean side, and I made it a point of honor to man up to the challenge.  If I couldn’t grow it or make it, I didn’t need it.  I was a stay-at-home Mom by choice, and by golly, I was not among the softies who couldn’t learn to do without!

But my contentment was often bundled up in a smug conception of how resilient/creative/humble/ resourceful/strong/clear-sighted I was.  I managed to bend away from the world’s material values right back toward my own proud flesh.  (How appropriate Luther’s definition of sin:  mankind curved in on itself.)

Oh thank God for growing in grace!  Along the Way (and over a space of many years—decades, in fact) I have learned that contentment is not so much a battle to be fought as it is eyes to be opened.  After all, as Hebrews 13:5 says, the one unfailing blessing that can crown each second with contentment is the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ.  By Him and with Him I can know He has perfectly designed the details of the moment. 

It is He that provides joys for the taking—the everyday bliss of babies and poems and candlelight.  It is He that provides peace in misery, the buoyant hope that there will not always be darkness/pain/emptiness/sin.  It is He that, over the long haul, becomes the Companion, Confidante, Friend, Whose presence transforms a prosaic concept like “contentment” into a quest to Seize the Day.

His fruit is love and joy.  Not just making do.



Monday, January 16, 2012

Two Projects

I’ve two projects to share today, one finished, one yet-to-begin.

Project One:  

The days after Christmas were chilly and quiet and ended each evening with a lovely fire.  How could I not pick up my knitting needles?

I wanted something to keep my neck warm that was not scratchy and would not dangle into the dishwasher or my Tuscan Spinach Soup.  My yarn stash included this cream colored cotton; I knitted a stockinette stitch but added a bit of ribbing on the edge to avoid curling.  

And I guess you could say I “designed” this (although it was more improvised than truly designed).  

So that project is completed.

Project Two: 

 I am going to join Becky as she and others memorize the book of Titus.  We will begin on February 4 and end on Easter Sunday, learning just a few verses each week.  The approach is to study and memorize--to get this truth into the mind and heart.  I like that!



Sunday, January 15, 2012


This is a beginning, a new way for me to share new things--things I'm doing, learning, making, enjoying.  It is a new way for me to say what is important to me--to say it to myself and to my readers, whoever you may be.

My purpose in blogging is reflected in the words of the Old Testament prophet Isaiah:

O Zion, that bringest good tidings,
get thee up into the high mountain;
O Jerusalem, that bringest good tidings,
lift up thy voice with strength;
lift it up, be not afraid;
say unto the cities of Judah, Behold your God!
                                               --Isaiah 40:9

(I cannot read Isaiah's Chapter 40 without hearing in my mind Handel's joyful expression of these words.)

This blog is my "high mountain."  This is a place where I proclaim "Behold!"